Suicide might be the answer. | ellemeza's Blog

Not the answer hun. Please call me. Don't go through this alone. Hugs, Cyndi

I know that I don't know you but you brought a smile to my face the other day when I needed one. You were so willing to do what you could to brighten up my day which in turn gave me strength, so let others now do the same for you. Let them give you their strength, let God work through them to help you. You can do this, I know you can. For your daughter's sake don't give up on yourself, she needs you in her life not just the memory of you.

I don't know for what reason you have separated from you husband... but.. don't expect your daughter to be happy if you take you life.. even worse when she'll discover her custody was the reason behind it!!

Please don't Elle....the pain would be too much for your daughter....and for you too I suspect. I empathize because I was having very black thoughts over the weekend too...of wanting to self-harm as a solution...but it isn't really a good solution is it.Warm thoughts to you ((hug))

Suicide sometimes sounds like a solution to the problems we have in life. Tough it out,get some counseling and medication for depression,you can have many happy years ahead of you with your daughter. Kids grow up and when they do,they are free to be with whoever they want and are no longer concerned with custody rulings and such. As bad as this situation feels to you now,it can change in the blink of an eye...and you need to be around to see it. Always and Forever, Linda

Elle, you are still in my thoughts and prayers. I care about you. Suicide isn't the answer but I am sure that there are some answers out there. Hang in there....Hugs, CMR

Your daughter can never replace you. Never.

I agree with KylieGirl, Cognition, & everyone who has commented. I don't know you either, but I don't think you want to destroy yourself because you can't have your daughter when you want to. Cherish the times that you do have with her instead of dwelling on the negativity. Don't give your husband the satisfaction in knowing that he has broke and destroyed you. Your daughter needs you in her life and you obviously need her despite how many times you'll be able to see her. I'm a life coach, and if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here and I'm a great listener and a great motivator! *Hugs*Dimples*

yeah...your daughter cannot replace you. she will never forgive you, or if she does, it will take so much pain to complete that process that it will hardly be worth it...

yeah...your daughter cannot replace you. she will never forgive you, or if she does, it will take so much pain to complete that process that it will hardly be worth it...